An Emerging Life

Well, this topic seems quite awkward but I’ve decided to share some stupid & funny moments of my life being a chashmish girl. You might have seen a number of people around you with spectacles but I guarantee you that none of them had such stupid moments with weaker eyesight.   So, let’s go back in 2014 when I got my very first spectacles. At that time I was studying at college. It was difficult for me to see far off places & even persons. I was unable to understand lectures written on the whiteboard. Well, to get new spectacles was another experience for me. Like other girls, I was excited too. We visited an eye specialist & he asked me to read those small fonts written letters from a far off wall. I started with the bigger ones & it was quite easy for me to read them. My younger sister was also beside me. When I reached at smaller fonts it was hard for me to read & whenever I read the wrong word my sister told me it’s not C it’s H & I burst into laugh...

“Positivity”, how soothing this word is? Being an optimist is a victory itself. The more you spread positivity the more you get back. I’ve seen a lot of people around me who are talking immensely on the topic of OPTIMISM but in reality, they themselves are dying with depression & negative thoughts. It’s a reality that everyone faces a lot of issues in their life because life isn’t a bed of roses. Life is tough, it can be hard as well as short for anyone. Then why we are keeping these worries in focus? Can’t we just go with the flow of positivity? Can’t we make ourselves happy and let others live happily without showing any kind of negative attitude? But it could be hard for some people as they can’t see others happy. They have bad intentions for others. They try to put negative vibes in your mind. So, what should you do? Just kick them out of your life. If you can’t do this then try to start ignoring such kind of people because I always do this. We can’t please everyone; we c...

I’m not going to start a campaign here for the rights of some people like women's rights, feminism, or freedom. The reason for writing is to talk about some minor issues in our systems that are proving lethal. Yes, there are a lot of such facts which are spreading panic among the nation. So, today we are going to discuss some of them but hope so they’ll be enough important to take your attention. Growing up in a poor family isn’t always easy for all. One can face miserable, broken, shattered, rejected, replaced, ignored & even worst. What is there fault? I’m not only asking but I’m going to tell you why there is so much difference among people living in the same country. INEQUALITY It’s not only a single word but it has the burden of hundreds of years. Do you remember the time period of our prophets? Did the Holy Prophet (PBUH) live in a villa? Did he own millions & billions? Did Hazrat Umar during his reign have his banks filled with gold coins? NO, A big NO. W...

Feminists? Human rights activist? Whoever you're, it doesn't matter if you're not actually going to reserve the rights for women. But wait it's not their fault. We the coward women are making ourselves available to be beaten by our husbands & facing physical violence. Neither I'm a social rights activist nor I'm running any NGO. The fact is I've seen the real face of domestic violence among people around me. A woman works day & night to get what? A slap? Abuse? Bully? Or worse? Is nature going to run smoothly after doing this brutal act? Why men are so cruel to beat the one whom they were in so much love for making a baby? Oh yes, just to have a baby they get marry & later on they want to do whatever they're doing now. They'll abuse you both physically and mentally. While emotional abuse is on the other side.  Why women are bearing all this fuss? Why they don't try to be courageous? Why they're acting so cowardly since ages? Why t...