PARAMETERS OF BEAUTY

We all have been caught by a situation where we feel dejected, broken, and hurt. Why does all this happen? Why people make us feel down? Why they put our feelings & emotions down to earth? Why they make us feel pity for ourselves? Who they are? Why should we allow them to do this kind of thing with us?

“Beauty is not in the face, but it's a light in the heart.”

I have heard this quote millions of times. You guys may have been aware of this quote once in a while in your life but did you ever try to devolve in the depth of its meaning? 

If you had ever tried to know it then I can say that you are well aware of the real meaning of beauty.

Today, I’ll compare some beauties with you to evaluate the judgments made by people, on people. Yes, we are the real menace of this society; we are the persons who judge people by their looks, not by their hearts. We are the real monsters who are spreading hate for each other. We are putting down self-respect & self-esteem of each other. 

So let’s have a look over it.

If someone have dark skin tone, people present different statements to make them feel inferior. People would comment like “Oh, look at this lady, she’s so dark, she looks like a crow, she is the night sky, her face is like ULTA TAWWA (Pan).” 

These are the most common compliments I’ve heard from the loudmouths of people who think themselves Prince/Princess of heaven.

Now don’t see the color of her face. Just have a look at her facial features. Aren’t they beautiful or I can say PERFECT?

Or just have a conversation with her. Doesn’t she talk with love & loyalty? 

So, why we are trying to make her feel down? Who the hell we are to do this with someone? Who gave us the right to do so? I just want to know the answer.

“Oh look at this girl, Woah she’s so pretty. Her skin tone is so perfect. But wait look at her piggy nose. Lmao. She’d be perfect if she had a pointed nose. She is pretty, but not as much as she could be.”

Two minutes of silence for such low graded people. Like seriously? Who the hell are you to make a statement like this? Are you trying to point out fingers on the GOD? Are you trying to disagree with the will of Almighty? Are you a better creator? How could you even think of it?

Alas! We are living in such a low-grade society with the meanest people.

What if you've freckles?

In this article, I’m not trying to make false statements. These all statements are 100% true because all these menaces have had happened in front of me & some with me too.

What if you've acne?

Pretty eyes, pointed nose, dimples, cheekbones, white skin tone, oh we got a perfect girl. But wait, look at her acne scars, Ewww this acne skin looks so ugly. She has the worst skin. It’s uglier than leprosy.

What is this behavior? What she has to do with these pimples? Did she pray for them? Did she ask the Lord to award her with this? 

What’s her fault in this? If she’s trying to overcome her fear & acting confident over it then why are you trying to make her feel degraded? Why you want her to cry like a baby over her pillow just because of some pimples?

No one is perfect, not at least in this world. Or I can say No One is EMMA WATSON. Then why you people want every girl/boy to look like a one in a million celebrity? Whatever they are, is only by the will of ALLAH. ALLAH has created them in the way they are now. 

What if a dark person whom you are putting down may have been awarded by a golden heart with lots of sincerity, love & emotions?

What if a white person whom you prefer over the black one has a stoned heart with the darkness inside? It could be vice versa.

What if girl/boy has acne on their faces but they are beautiful inside/outside?

Then why we are trying to change already existing beauties. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. No one is perfect but no one is ugly. A heart could be ugly, filled with hatred and jealousy. What to do with the looks of people? In the end, we all are the same, left with our wrinkled faces & beauty of our heart. So, why don’t we prefer the beauty of the heart from the start? I swear if we started preferring beauty of inside over beauty of outside we’d be perfect from every side.

So, let’s start spreading love among ourselves. Let’s spread positivity. Let’s share positive vibes. Let’s start AN EMERGING LIFE.